Mix the marinade ingredients, sesame seed oil to the cayenne,
If using chicken breasts, slice into strips. If using tenders, just put in a gallon baggie. Add the marinade and store in the fridge until ready to cook.
When ready to cook, take the chicken out of the baggie and cook desired way. Discard the marinade.
Cook until cooked through but not overcooked.
Mix the sauce ingredients together.
If your sauce needs it, add optional milk to make it mixable.
Serve on top of the cooked chicken.